According to research published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine, women prefer sex to foreplay and are more likely to reach orgasms from vaginal intercourse than foreplay, so boo hoo sucks to Anne Koedt and the vaginal orgasm is a myth brigade: most of cum from penetrative sex, not being eaten out. Yes it’s true: girls like cock!!!
That’s just the way we’re anatomically built. We receive pleasure from having our vags penetrated hard and fast. Although, there is no absolutely no reason why a healthy girl can’t reach orgasm during penetrative sex without clitoral stimulation, research shows that most women prefer to reach orgasm by playing the clitar and having our pussies penetrated at the same time — like this is news?
So what is your favourite position?
Viennese Oyster
Italian hanger
cello
Italian chandelier
standing doggy
doggy style
cowgirl
rear entry
carry
missionary (yawn)
stefi
amica
rob
pietro amico
heather
29 September, 2009 at 1:57 pm
Wow, you’ve got to be flexible for the Viennese Oyster and Italian hanger, no?
I like doggy style, rear entry and cowgirl best. Not keen on the missionary either doesn’t hit the spot for me.
heather
29 September, 2009 at 1:57 pm
What positions do you like best Steph?
steph
29 September, 2009 at 3:45 pm
@ heather
The Viennese Oyster, Italian hanger and the cello are my favourite positions but I like doggy and standing doggy too… woof, woof
steph
29 September, 2009 at 3:46 pm
@ heather
But I am flexible
heather
30 September, 2009 at 3:55 pm
I haven’t done the cello. You don’t you like cowgirl, huh?
steph
2 October, 2009 at 6:07 pm
@ heather
Of course!!! Cowgirl and reverse cowgirl but the cello is better
alvarezgalloso
2 October, 2009 at 8:50 pm
Steph:
I would like to thank you for explaining these positions. Although I am married, there is always the problem of understanding these positions.
I often wander [excuse me for asking] how many times can a girl have sex and for how long. My question is based on a couple that I know in which the woman has been watching soap operas and would attempt to have non stop sex with her husband who is of the belief that there should be some balance between sex and excess of a good thing.
Roberto
steph
4 October, 2009 at 12:43 pm
@ Roberto
A girl can have sex as often as she wants and can go 30 to 60 mins without getting sore. If he can’t keep it up as long as she wants him to, there are other things he can do to her or she can do to him.
Kier
5 October, 2009 at 10:42 am
The missionary can hit the spot if you use the coital alignment technique (CAT). Reverse the leg positions (his open, yours together) – it adjusts the position of his pelvis against you; constant stimulation on the clitoris if you want it.
Happy to see a rare report not portraying women as sexually high maintenance; I do wish more people would recognise that not all of us need flowery frippery and feathery strokes before getting a lay.
steph
5 October, 2009 at 4:51 pm
@ Kier
I’ll have to try that. I like the the Italian hanger, pearly gates and doggy position for manual clit stimulation, while I’m being fucked hard. I completely agree with you about the flowery frippery and feathery strokes, I’d much rather be spanked and fingered, and I’d rather give head than be eaten out.
heather
5 October, 2009 at 6:11 pm
Kier…
I’ll try that too but don’t you find they come to quick in the missionary position?
Oh I agree. That can be so annoying when you want him inside you already.
heather
5 October, 2009 at 6:18 pm
Steph..
You like being spanked, huh? Do you like giving head or not like your pussy being eaten?
steph
5 October, 2009 at 7:06 pm
@ heather
Yeah, don’t you?
I’m not keen on being eaten out. It doesn’t do much for me.
alvarezgalloso
7 October, 2009 at 3:54 pm
Thanks for the reply. Roberto
Donger
9 October, 2009 at 5:38 pm
Well my wife likes Viennese, and the Cello, and moving the legs from left to right.
Also you have got to pound (thrust) the vag, hard. She will let you know when you bump the cervix. Other then that being a guy I like all of them.
After 17 years of marriage, it only gets better. I case your wondering we try to get together at least 4 times a week.
More if we have the same days off from work. And no one is sick or other problems.
What will the future bring? No one knows. It might all end in a minute. Let’s hope not.
scott
29 October, 2009 at 12:54 am
I though all women were keen on it. I would paint with such a broad stroke next time.
Scott
29 October, 2009 at 1:14 am
**meaning: “I won’t such a broad stroke next time.”**
steph
29 October, 2009 at 6:42 pm
@ Scott
A lot of girls aren’t that keen but see my post on oral sex tomorrow, I’ll explain what I mean.
Melinda H.
19 November, 2009 at 3:03 am
Great post, Steph. I hope you don’t mind me commenting.
My favourite position is definitely Doggy Style, for the same reasons you mention. I like it hard and fast, and it leaves me free to play the clitar, so to speak.
It’s true. Real girls love the cock
steph
22 November, 2009 at 11:10 pm
@ melinda
Thanks, I completely agree. Love your website by the way: it’s very girl friendly.
Jerry
28 November, 2009 at 8:07 pm
being Italian and all – After a good drunk and I am on that Italian Hang Over – I would love doing the Italian Hanger with you Steph
steph
1 December, 2009 at 4:26 pm
Thanks Jerry
Una buona posizione se tu hai un minchia grasso per stirare la mia figa stretta.